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One of the biggest misconceptions in the world of personal development is regarding doing what we like to do. We are told that to be successful one should do what he or she loves and many take that statement and interpret it as “I should enjoy whatever I do all the time or else I am not doing the right thing” which is a false interpretation of the aforementioned recommendation.

Doing what we love or loving what we do even if what we do is not enjoyable at the moment?

If the end goal is to do what you like doing then the means to that end is to what you don’t like at all! This statement seems overly simple on the surface but in fact it is one of the hardest notions to truly fathom and internalize on an emotional level. Think of one thing that you really like doing, it could be absolutely anything be it traveling, sleeping over on the weekend, watching your favorite movies, getting a good massage, or eating your favorite meal. Even such highly enjoyable activities will inevitably involve doing things that you don’t like doing. For instance, to travel which is something that you do enjoy you have to do things like booking, planning, packing your bags, going through the boring process of obtaining a visa if the country you are traveling to requires one, waiting in long lines, putting up with delayed or long flights, occasionally get lost in a city or lose an item or document, and many such things that you don’t like but without them you will never get to enjoy the wonders of traveling.

The joy of traveling, like the joy of most other desirable experiences in life, will always involve taking steps that one will not enjoy but has to do regardless in order to have that experience

A similar approach can be used to describe all other aforementioned examples and if we take a look at more worthy ideals from graduation and making a business profitable to having the body of your dream or a satisfactory relationship you will inevitably have to do many things that you don’t like in order to finally get to do what you do like and often you have to do the things that you don’t like first, do them more often, and keep doing them for as long as you pursue your goals.

It is naive to assume that once you discover a goal or a profession that you love then you can enjoy every minute of every day in its pursuit. This naïveté not only wrongfully makes the natural process of goal attaining, which inevitably involves doing things that you don’t like, seem out of place but also could send people on a wild goose chase of constantly looking for another goal or profession that they enjoy doing all the time without ever finding it.

Achieving goals will always involve an element of work. Just like in farming the toil of working on the field precedes the joy of harvesting

Yes, you must set goals and find professions that you absolutely love and yes it is crucial for the work to be cognitively meaningful and emotionally fulfilling for you; however, you cannot and should not expect to enjoy everything you do on the way to accomplishing them. Steve Jobs is perhaps the most renowned figure when it comes to this issue as he not only did what he loved at Pixar and Apple but also recommended everyone to do the same. He once said: “ Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do”.

His love for what he did not only enriched Steve’s life but also put a “major dent in the universe” as he had wished all along. Yet a quick glance at his magnificent life reminds us that on the way to realizing his mission and as part of the very work that he loved to do Steve Jobs underwent many trials and dire situations that he did not like at all, just imagine being ousted out of the company that you have created yourself, going through many legal battles, constantly having the media criticize and judge your every move, not to mention the other issues that would have made focusing on his work difficult such as serious family issues and even cancer.

Steve Jobs achieved his success by doing what he loved but while doing what he loved he also endured many setbacks that he clearly didn’t enjoy but the sense of meaning and the love of his goals helped him to keep moving forward during tough times

Once we understand that doing what we like doing requires us to spend a great deal of time doing the things that we do NOT like, sometimes for years, we avoid the trap of confusing doing what we love with doing what we enjoy all the time since while the former is the worthiest of all aims the latter is but an illusion. In order to do what you like, you have to also do what you don’t like and once you internalize this lesson not only will you be more resilient in face of the inevitable obstacles ahead but can also get to doing what you really like much faster!

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Personal Development

Success is Goals and All Else is Commentary

May 1, 2021September 6, 2022 danmolgan

Wherever you glance and spot the manifestations of happiness, fulfillment, and success you will almost invariably trace it all the way back to a life devoted to the pursuit of goals that are considered to be important and meaningful for the individual who pursues them. On the contrary, the origin of all forms of negativity, passivity, jealousy, and underachievement is rooted in one’s inability or unwillingness to set clear goals along with a plan and a commitment to accomplish them. That is precisely why it is said that success is goals and all else is commentary!

Any form of success in any field comes down to setting and achieving specific goals

The truth of the matter is that all humans are goal seeking organisms and in fact whenever we are laying the foundation for a Fortune 500 company, browsing through social media, sunbathing on the beach, or worrying about an upcoming exam or anything else we are indeed trying to achieve a specific goal but the difference is in whether we are consciously aware of this process and thus choose our goals with a great deal of care and consideration or simply drift in life and react to what occurs and in the process pursue random goals that are the byproducts of the environment.

Just like a beautiful garden is rarely formed through natural causes a fulfilling life is in most cases not a result of following random goals fueled by impulse but rather it is an output of a more conscious approach to life marked by planning, deliberate practice, and committed pursuit of a worthy ideal. Alas, this manner of thinking is rarely if ever taught to us as we go through the educational system and in most cases goal setting and goal attainment are not developed among children by parents since often the parents themselves have no clue as how to live a goal oriented life.

Just like a beautiful garden cannot come about without the constant care of a gardener a fulfilling life needs one to sow the seeds of goals and reap the rewards following their fruition

This immense desire for meaning and purpose has always been at the core of what makes us humans and until recently religions and traditions used to satisfy this need, in most cases a trade off that gave individuals a clear set of objectives in exchange for financially and politically benefiting the church or the overall well-being of the society. Yet, given that in the 21st century religion gradually loses influence worldwide and individualism takes precedence over collectivism the pull of religion and traditions will be less and less capable of supplying a sense of meaning and identity for individuals and in a world where all affairs can be done at the speed of light we need to take a more serious look at the education of goal setting and goal achievement or else we have to risk becoming the victims of consumerism and unending entertainment which tend to afflict those with lack of clear goals much more than the ones who are actively pursuing their objectives and thus cannot afford such distractions.

Clear goals set and articulated to every member of a team is the key to the success of that group

While goal setting is the true art of life, knowing yourself is the true art of goal setting; after all not all goals are made equal and choosing our path in life in a way that makes use of our strengths and reduces the dependence on our weaknesses will certainly lead to a happier and more harmonious existence. Many argue that working on getting rid of our weaknesses can improve the quality of our lives and while that is without a shadow of doubt true, the fact of the matter is, that our focus in life should not be merely on correcting what is wrong with us but rather to tap into our strengths and use them as a means of achieving excellence. Hence, best goals are the ones that make use of your inherent strengths and are less hindered by your weaknesses which in turn allows you to do easily accomplish what many find hard to do. Just imagine a world where most are indeed doing that, such a world will be filled with more excellent individuals doing what they like and do best which in turn serves not only themselves but also those around them. Such a society is engineered for success, tailored for happiness, and paves the way for a both individualistic and collectivist sense of fulfillment.

Choosing the right goal plays a crucial role in determining how competitive you are and how much of your strength is used in the pursuit of your goals

In conclusion it ought to be mentioned yet again that success is goals and all else is commentary and the moment we internalize this concept, and simultaneously help those around us to grasp it, we are becoming the masters of our destiny instead of victims of our circumstances!

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Personal Development

Progress Check After One Year of Pandemic

March 16, 2021September 6, 2022 danmolgan

Today marks the day when the absolute majority of countries around the world implemented restrictions on the lives of their citizens as well as those of other nations who wished to cross their borders. Many of us lamented the fact that life had lost its normalcy that subsequently made us stuck in our homes and compelled to work and study remotely. That was when many of us abandoned our goals and succumbed to a new routine that was marked by aimlessness and time wasted on social media or behind TV screens randomly scrolling and switching.

The world was essentially shutdown for one year but some of us kept the lights up in the furnace of achievement

On this day last year I told all of my friends that one man’s nightmare is another man’s fortune and encouraged them to take advantage of all the opportunities available during this tough time. Above all, I emphasized on making sure their time was not wasted since any given pandemic usually lasts for a year or two and any habit picked up during this period will be incredibly hard to dispose of later on.

Well, a year has passed and now it is time for an honest assessment of your progress, or lack there of, during the past 12 months. When you look back at the time that went by do you feel proud of how you spent your time and sense that the pandemic was a blessing in disguise that allowed you to develop clarity, pursue your goals with less distraction, dedicate more time to study and reflection, set your priorities straight, save more money due to the inevitable lower need for consumption so as to build a financial security bucket or use it as investment capital, and above all build mental toughness? Or do you instead feel hurt, lament all the boring days that went by, suffer from lack of confidence after having seen that you can easily lose sight of your goals upon facing with a crisis, and above all found yourself repeatedly blaming the local authorities for having turned your life into a personal hell?

The past 12 months certainly did require adjusting to a new way of working, studying, and living but it by no means was meant to stop you from making progress, quite the opposite, it was a stepping stone for career and personal success

The bad news is that the 12 months that went by won’t ever come back, it is gone along with all the opportunities that it presented! The good news is that all the experts in the field of public health believe we will soon get out of this critical situation thanks to the increasing pace of vaccination that will lead to herd immunity but until then there are still quite a few months left which means you can decide to make the most of your time until World Health Organization (WHO) officially declares this pandemic as over, and believe me that day will come!

Today as we look back at the progress made during the last 12 months we keep our eyes on the prize of the future and commit to making the most of our time in the coming months!

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A Clarification on Doing What We Love

Success is Goals and All Else is Commentary

Progress Check After One Year of Pandemic